Sexual health and STDs are often associated with the younger generations. However, contrary to popular belief, they’re an issue that also affects older people, especially those living in retirement homes. Senior living communities encourage seniors to socialize and build relationships with other residents, so it’s inevitable that sexual partnerships develop.
STD casesare on the increase across all age groups, with the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention estimating that1 in 5 Americansare affected at any one time. Although cases are most prevalent among teens and young adults, more and more adultsaged 60 and olderrequire treatment for STDs, including herpes simplex, syphilis, gonorrhea, chlamydia and trichomoniasis.
Sexual health is a difficult subject to discuss with an elderly relative or friend. But, as older adults are still sexually active, it’s a conversation that needs to happen. Raising awareness can help encourage seniors to practice safe sex and reduce their risk of contracting STDs.
This guide discusses this sensitive issue and will help seniors, their families and caregivers understand sexual health in older adults, the risk of STDs in retirement homes, how to identify and protect against STDs, and how to recognize the signs of and report sexual abuse.
Are Older Adults Still Sexually Active?
Everyone has a psychosociological need for affection and tenderness. From hand-holding to sexual intercourse, this desire for intimacydoesn’t fadeas people age, with sex remaining an important part of relationships. Adults remain sexually active as they get older according to an article inThe New England Journal of Medicine.
Results of seniors studied as sexually active:
- 73% of the 57 to 64 age group
- 53% of the 65 to 74 age group
- 26% of the 75 to 85 age group
Misconceptions About Older Adults and Sex
Many people think older adults don’t have sex and that sexuality belongs to the young. Often it’s because they feel seniors can’t have sex or don’t want to. These are some of the misconceptions society has about older adults and sex.
- Seniors don’t want to have sex:The natural need for intimacy doesn’t go away just because someone is elderly. Seniors may not talk about sex in the same way as younger people do, but many of them still have a desire for a sexual relationship.
- Older men can’t perform in the bedroom:Erectile dysfunction affects men of all ages but is more common in older men, with almost70% of 70-year-oldmales having ED. Luckily, ED is treatable through prescription drugs, lifestyle changes and other methods, allowing seniors to overcome the condition and still enjoy a healthy sex life.
- Older women dislike sex:Older women may want sex, but find it uncomfortable due to vaginal dryness caused by reduced estrogen levels. Over-the-counter lubricants and creams can ease the discomfort, making intercourse more enjoyable.
- Seniors don’t need to use protection when having sex:Many seniors are under the impression that theydon’t need to use protectionwhen having sex. While pregnancy isn’t an issue, seniors can still contract STDs, so they should use condoms, especially if they’re in nonmonogamous relationships.
- Older people aren’t attractive:Aging causes changes to the body and appearance, but older adults still look after themselves. Chemistry brings two people together, whatever their age, attracted by looks, personalities, mutual interests and life experiences.
Improving Sexual Health Education for Seniors
Sexual health education and safe sex campaigns came to the forefront in the 1980s. At that time, many of today’s seniors were already married, so they never learned about STDs and why practicing safe sex is important.
These lessons are generally aimed at young adults, but seniors also require the same education to help prevent the spread of STDs. In addition, having sexual relations in later life can bring up other issues due to physical limitations. Educating seniors on sexual health raises awareness of potential problems they may encounter and can help them maintain a healthy sex life.
Expected Changes in the Sexuality of Seniors as They Age
Today’s seniors were around in the 1960s and ’70s when sexual expression was a part of everyday life. This generation still considers sexuality important, but with age comescertain changes.
Sexuality involves physical and emotional desires, feelings and actions. Some seniors crave intimacy in a relationship, while others choose to avoid sexual connections. Studies show thatsexual activity declines in older age,and women are less likely to be sexually active than men. However, with more time, fewer distractions, more privacy and an ability to better express themselves, many couples find greater satisfaction in sex and a better connection than when they were young.
Causes of Sexual Problems in Seniors
Disabilities, illness, surgery and medications can all causesexual problemsfor older adults. Studies suggest that approximately half ofsexually active seniorsexperience some sort of sexual problem as a result of health issues, such as:
- Arthritis
- Chronic pain
- Dementia
- Heart Disease
- Incontinence
- Surgery
- Depression
- Stroke
Luckily, there are plenty of ways older adults can overcome problems and continue to have an enjoyable sex life. Arthritic pain can be eased through exercise, rest and warm baths, while doctors, pharmacists and other health care professionals can help seniors address many of the common causes of sexual problems, such as medical conditions, incontinence, vaginal dryness and erectile dysfunction.
Dealing With Physical Health Becoming a Barrier to Sex
Bodies change with age, and physical health could be seen as an obstacle for two older people wanting to be intimate. However, aching joints, muscle pain and other physical limitations shouldn’t be a barrier to a sexual relationship.
Physical issues may change the way seniors approach sex. They should be encouraged to find ways to make intercourse more comfortable to ease pain and aches. Couples can try exploring new positions or use pillows or cushions to support different parts of the body. For further advice, speak with a therapist or a doctor.
How Seniors Can Maintain an Active and Enjoyable Sex Life
Both elderly partners are going through age-related changes, so communication is key. You may feel your partner is avoiding sex or is no longer interested in you. But, often, this isn’t the case. Talk to your partner about how they’re feeling and express how you’re feeling in return. Taking the time to understand how changes are physically and mentally affecting both of you is the first step toward reigniting your sexual relationship.
Many therapists and health care professionals have experience in helping couples work through sexual matters. Physical problems, such as ED or vaginal dryness, can be solved with medications, while individual or couples therapy can help rectify any emotional issues that stand in the way of an enjoyable sex life.
Reviewed by: Dr. Brindusa Vanta, MD
Published in: www.caring.com
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